Pat Maddox, volunteer, Friends of Refugees
12/1/2009

Pat
Maddox has never left North America. Now that she’s seventy-one and
living on Social Security, she probably never will. Which is all right,
because she lives in Clarkston. The world has come to her. In 1996,
Maddox, a home-healthcare nurse, began delivering surplus bread from
Publix to the town’s many foreign-born refugees. Unable to speak their
languages, she communicated with smiles and hand gestures. This is the
danger of giving a little: You suddenly find yourself giving a lot.
Soon they were inviting her in for tea. And they found a way to ask
questions. What does this letter mean? Where do we get food stamps? How
will we pay the electric bill? Miss Pat found the answers. Sometimes
she paid the electric bill herself. She let people stay in her
basement. To her, it was all part of obeying God’s commandment to love
your neighbor as yourself. God made no exception for Bosnian neighbors,
or Vietnamese, or African child soldiers. She drove people to the
doctor and the dentist. She took girls to the ballet and boys to see
the Hawks. Her Friends of Refugees organization grew with the
population. Youth groups came from Virginia and Texas to help run her
summer camps. Resumes took shape over fresh coffee at the “Cafe
Clarkston,” a computer room especially for immigrants. Teachers
volunteered for Mommy and Me classes, where everyone learned English
together. One day a volunteer said, “Miss Pat, how do you respond to
all the needs?” And she said, “Well, as I’ve reached out, some of the
refugees have reached back. And the ones that reach back are the ones
you pour your life into.”
—Thomas Lake
Photograph by Joe Martinez