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Q&A: 'Equally Wed' editor Kirsten Ott Palladino chats about marriage equality

The co-founder of the Atlanta-based online magazine talks about advocacy journalism. Plus, Georgia marriage equality by the numbers

Since she cofounded Atlanta-based Equally Wed in 2010, editor in chief Kirsten Ott Palladino has seen the number of states that recognize same-sex marriage more than triple. She says she has found her passion: advocacy journalism “wrapped up in pretty lace, handsome linens, and happy smiles of people in love."

What was your motivation for starting Equally Wed? My wife, Maria, and I launched the online magazine in 2010 after facing discrimination and challenges when planning our own 2009 nuptials. We noticed the enormous lack of coverage of same-sex weddings in commercial magazines and felt betrayed—that our community’s weddings were not worth covering by mainstream media.

What can readers of Equally Wed expect to find? We publish new content daily, from real weddings to marriage equality news to tips on DIY, all with a streamlined focus on how it applies to the LGBTQ community, such as suits for women, makeup for men, dealing with homophobia in the family, and how two people of the same sex propose to each other—or don’t. We’ve also custom-built LGBTQ-centric interactive wedding-planning tools, as well as an intentionally slim marketplace of equality-minded, gay-friendly wedding professionals.

How have attitudes toward marriage equality changed since you started? When we launched Equally Wed, only five states legally recognized same-sex marriage. Now it’s seventeen. It’s been astounding to see people doing the right thing in such a widespread manner. But unfortunately that doesn’t mean that ignorance and hate aren’t thriving in every state, including ones that offer marriage equality.

Do you think attitudes have changed in Georgia? Homophobia is still rampant in Georgia, and it will take decades for it to dissipate in a truly evolved way. But . . . we’ll get there. We have to!

How does Equally Wed factor into the move for marriage equality? There are a zillion facets to this fight, but at the heart of it all is visibility: For Maria and I to feel confident holding hands in public and walking with our young children. Couples proud and brave enough to submit their wedding photos where they’ll be seen worldwide. Courageous men and women putting themselves directly in the line of fire by starting or joining lawsuits in their own states for the freedom to marry.

Marriage equality by the numbers

21,318

Number of same-sex households in Georgia, according to analysis of Cenus data by the Williams Institute.

2004
Voters approved an amendment banning same-sex marriage.

2006
Georgia's supreme court upheld the amendment.

2014
A federal class-action suit was filed.

57%

of Georgians polled in 2012 approved of same-sex marriage or civil unions.

17%

of metro Atlanta's same-sex households consist of couples raising children.



This story originally appeared in our June 2014 issue

UPDATE, JUNE 2014:  Since this story went to press, the number of states in which same-sex marriage is legal has risen to 19.

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  1. Keith Pullman posted on 06/17/2014 08:03 AM
    Thanks for the great interview! There is no good reason to deny that we must keep evolving until an adult, regardless of gender, sexual orientation, monogamy or polyamory, race, or religion is free to marry any and all consenting adults. The limited same-gender freedom to marry is a great and historic step, but is NOT full marriage equality, because equality "just for some" is not equality. Let's stand up for EVERY ADULT'S right to marry the person(s) they love. Get on the right side of history!
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